Fear of losing someone….

                “Every man is Afraid of something”. And one of the greatest among this is “The fear of losing someone”. “Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here”. And amazingly the fear of losing someone is completed related to love. When u love someone, then automatically fear of losing him/her comes to mind.

 It’s not necessarily that the “someone” should be your girlfriend or wife. It can be anyone. In different phases of our life, this “Someone” changes. In some phase it’s our parents. In some phase it can be a friend or a girl you like. It may or may not be that the “someone” does have any fear of losing you. But in both condition you fear. It’s love dear.

When you have a fear of losing someone. You start loving and caring him/her more. This makes the relationship stronger and secure. The more you fear, the more your love increases.  The fear remains a fear and the situation never comes.  

In life you can lose a person by two ways. One is if he/she leaves you and the second is if the person leaves life. In both the situation you only feel the pain. The pain is still somehow less and resistible when it happens suddenly.

 Think of a situation when you know that it is destined that you will be together for a while. And your separation is inevitable. The pain you feel in this situation is inexpressible. It can be understood only by the persons’ who have been in the situation. Your love and care increases but it can’t change the destiny.

Every moment you spend together reminds of the pain waiting. People can live a complete life happily with a tiny hope in heart. Lekin iss me to hope bhi nehi hai. You die every moment and your eyes are filled with water. Your heart cries. But you want to hide your emotions, so the person you love does not feel the pain. You sit beside him/her and feel that we will never be again together. The moment you talk, walk, together will never come again. And you will be only left with some memories to cherish upon in future all alone. It’s hard to spend the life in such situation. But no one can change his/her destiny.

After separation the only thing we can do is to look at the sky and be happy that we are under the same sky if he/she alive. Else look at the brightest star in the sky and say “hi dear. Kaise ho”.  

                   “When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.”

     “Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal”